You are who you hang around. Ever have a parent or other adult say this to you? Well, it’s true. The views, opinions, and lifestyles of those we choose to associate with can impact what we see, think, and ultimately how we choose to live.
Our lives started though with a foundation of values and beliefs set by loved ones. These years are so formative of who we become because we compare everything that we are told and experience to what was instilled into us.
Sometimes what we value and believe changes positively. If you didn’t grow up in a loving home, you one day have a family of your own where you make sure everyone knows they are loved. Maybe you didn’t grow up around people who believed or followed Jesus and someone showed you the importance of having a personal relationship with Him.
Sometimes the shifts in our thoughts and beliefs are detrimental to our well being. You may have grown up with people that loved and valued you and have now chosen friends who use you in some way and you allow them because you’re so desperate to be accepted. Or perhaps something happened in your walk with Jesus. You committed your life to Christ, but because of circumstances beyond your control your faith was tested and you no longer believe.
Things in life happen. Even as Christ believers things happen that get us questioning what we really think. It can be easy to allow your feeling to impact your thoughts and your thoughts to change your actions. A firm foundation in Christ is the key.
He is the rock on which we stand. If we don’t, the shifting sand all around us will change our view of Him. So build your life based on who God says you are and surround yourself with others who can build you up instead of tear you down or lead you astray.
This doesn’t mean you should only associate with other believers. It does mean you need to guard your heart. Instead of allowing others to negatively affect who you are and who you become, choose to be an impact to them. Show love and grace even when someone doesn’t deserve it.
Be Jesus’ hands and feet to the world and bring hope and light to even the darkest corners and the darkest hearts. Love wins above all else. Choose carefully who you associate with and influence the world with the power and love of Jesus.
